I'm going on about notions of acceptable circumstances for sex because it really does seem to impact peoples sexualities noticably. And Down's a case that interests me, because as anarchic as it is, I've noticed they seem to tend toward somewhat more privacy or at least smaller public surroundings than Bottom or Charm. I wonder what factors induce this? |
I'm going on about notions of acceptable circumstances for sex because it really does seem to impact peoples sexualities noticably. And Down's a case that interests me, because as anarchic as it is, I've noticed they seem to tend toward somewhat more privacy or at least smaller public surroundings than Bottom or Charm. I wonder what factors induce this? :I'm going to suggest that maybe it's because grimy streets aren't commonly accepted as being comfortable places to make out. Though there are people who prefer them, we haven't seen many. - Echo |
Other Ways of Looking at Things: 'The End of Gay', by Bert Archer, starting with how the concept of Homosexual was invented in the 1800's and going on to state that there are only Sexual Acts, not Identity
And another book (which I will be asking my Russian friend for again) in which an essay talks about how Soviets, because they didn't have Stonewall (and, thus, a revolutionary take on sexuality), seperate their Identity from their Sexuality. Thus, everyone is Heterosexual, but how they have sex is just them having sex, not their Identity.
Some call "fetishes" a grossly unhealthy thing, an unhealthy obsession with something. Some call "fetishes" a perfectly normal thing, which shouldn't even be called "fetishes". They're just different tastes. Some treat it like something unusual, some make it part of their everyday life, and even more try to force them out of their lives intirely. Some call them chemical, some call them societal, and some still think they're learned and trained.
There is more debate on what a "fetish" is than "sexuality" or "gender".
I'm going on about notions of acceptable circumstances for sex because it really does seem to impact peoples sexualities noticably. And Down's a case that interests me, because as anarchic as it is, I've noticed they seem to tend toward somewhat more privacy or at least smaller public surroundings than Bottom or Charm. I wonder what factors induce this?